4 (Big) Ways My Life Has Changed; or - Now I'm One of "Jerry's Kids"

VJD

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This post is long over-due, but here goes:

1.) In December of last year (on New Years Eve, of all days!), I was diagnosed with a disease that goes by a few different names:
Hereditary Periphial Neuropathy (HPN), Motor/Sensory Neuropathy, or more specifically - Charcot-Marie-Tooth ( named for the 3 doctors that discovered it in the 1800's )
This disease is hereditary, and affects about 30 people out of 100,000.

It starts in the perephial nervous system (the out-lying, or longest nerve bundles, i.e. your feet and lower legs, the later, your hands and lower arms)

It is a neruopathy, so the nerves are affected, but it falls under the umbrella of Muscular Distrophy, because the muscles are affected too.

The nerves become damaged and slowly start dying. As the nerves die, the muscles atrophy, because there is no nerve action to stimulate them.

SO - patients (me!) develop "foot drop" because they have difficulties lifting their feet and legs high enough to clear the floor (I wear leg braces to keep me from falling)... blah blah blah, and yadda, yadda, yadda :) There are a few other inconviences - fatigue, hand problems, nerve pain - but you get my drift...

There is no cure, and at this time, there is nothing to slow the progression. Physical therapy can help strengthen the remaining muscles, but over-use can cause further damage.

Change #2) You are all in this industry, so you know how physically demanding it can be! Throughout March, April, and May, I slowly reduced my hours... I couldn't do the work I used to do as a designer. In June, even the proms ended, so my days of sitting and doing wrist corsages for 4-5 hours a day ended. I stopped working.

Change #3) I am in the process of applying for SSDI ( Disability! who woulda thought?)

Change #4) I leave for Boston, and Symposium TOMORROW!! Yippee!

Last September, I started putting away $50 per week, to achieve a dream - to go to Symposium, and test for AIFD/(now CFD). AIFD even certified the design classes I was holding through our State Association, as one of their approved "Pathway Programs" - I was getting ready - brushing up on learning by teaching!

When I was diagnosed with this thing, I already had $1300 saved. (thank goodness!) I had about 10 neurologist and doctor appointments, and had to pay my co-pay for $1,200 leg braces... hmmm - I started dipping into my "Symposium savings"

Anyway, I made the decision to still go to Symposium (my "Education Only" registration was $585, plus, my wholesaler offered a $100 discount copupon - so my supersaver registration was less than $500)

Thats it in a nutshell!

My life has changed, but just with inconvieniences. I rest more often, am learning what is important to do, (and what can wait) and am enjoying the sunshine.

I still love this industry, and soon, hope to venture back on the path!

Valerie in NH
 
I'm always awed by the grace and dignity some people have through adversity. You are among them. I'm so glad you followed your dream... no matter what.

Thank you for sharing your story Valerie. And of course you'll continue to share your knowledge.

V
 
you will have a special place in my thoughts, my prayers, and my meditations.
 
You sound so strong and determined, I greatly admire that! I hope that you enjoy the symposium; please continue to keep us posted and thank you for sharing your story.
Emily
 
Valerie,

What a coincidence, I was just thinking of you for the past several weeks. Wondering how you were faring and what your plans are.

Fantastic that you are going to symposium, I wish I could have made that happen so I could have met you and others in this forum.

I pray for you, and admire your courage in facing your challenges.

Linda
 
I really admire your strength and hope you have a wonderful time at the aifd symposium. You are an inspiration!! My prayers are with you, this is not an easy time for you..
 
Valerie, I too am very sorry for your diagnosis, but I have a great big feeling you will fight with all your might against it....

It has been great spending some time with you over the last couple of days...
 
Darling Val ... Really enjoyed our lunch together at Symposium!! I just want to say that Val is still the vivacious, charming, and forthright person as she always was and still has her love for the profession and education as she always did. It was great to see you darling and hopefully will see you again soon (Augusta??).......
I still believe that someone should endow her so she could open a NH/ME Design School!!!!!!!!!! Love ya girlie.
 
Valerie, sorry to read your story but thank you for sharing. To quote a friend with this disease "Lead your life with your heart. Try not to hurt yourself or others. And always remember to smile." It seems to me that you've got all of that covered very well. Keeping you in our prayers here.
 
Thanks for sharing your story. It was a good decision to still attend the Symposium. Enjoy it, you never know who you will meet to keep you in this business. A special prayer sent to you and let us know, how it went.
 
Valerie, in the raging river called life, the turbulence is all around us, it sloshes, it pushes, it moves, and can determine the very last "breaths" that you possess, yet, on the bottom of that river, the place where MANY find ourselves from time to time, there are things called "ROCKS", and YOU, are one of those rocks, that as the river rages around you, YOU have found ways to be creative....rocks grow mosses, rocks provide shelter, rocks alter the course of the river, and rocks are STILL THERE, when the river subsides......you remind me of one of those steadfast rocks, and YOU'LL decide when you'll be moved of defeated! :)
 
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