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BamaE4U

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The Search For Meaning

Imagine what it must be like to be shipped like cargo along with your whole family to a place, the only purpose of which is to kill people. Imagine struggling to stay alive physically and spiritually in that setting, not knowing what has happened to the rest of your family, but believing that they were exterminated in gas chambers or ovens. This was the common experience of people referred to as holocaust survivors.

One survivor was Viktor Frankl, a psychiatrist who emerged from the experience with extraordinary insights valuable to all of us. In "Man's Search for Meaning" he says, "We who lived in concentration camps can remember the men who walked throughout the huts comforting others, giving away their last piece of bread. They may have been few in number, but they offer sufficient proof that everything can be taken away from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms - to choose one's ATTITUDE in any given set of circumstances, to choose one's own way."

"Every prisoner had a moral choice to make," he says, "to surrender one's inner self to the Nazis, or to find the meaning in one's life that would give one the strength to go on."

The lessons we can learn are that no matter how bad our troubles are, we can survive them if we choose to survive. And the best way to survive - in fact, the best way to thrive - is to find meaning in every moment of existence, every memory and every possibility for our future.

Remember, character counts!

Michael Josephson
www.charactercounts.org

HOW IS YOUR ATTITUDE TODAY?
 
BamaE4U said:
HOW IS YOUR ATTITUDE TODAY?

Just fine, thanks.

I just returned from the funeral of a family friend. Born in 1924, Wally lost his parents at age 8. For nine years he was raised in foster homes and a board house. At 17 (1941) he volunteered for military service. Later he was a volunteer fireman in the new area of Islington (now part of Toronto), and later was given badge #1 in the brand new fire department of Etobicoke where he later became District Chief.

Wally & his wife Norma raised three daughters who all carry their father's smile and light heart. For a man with many excuses to be bitter or cold, Wally had a smile for everyone, and joke always ready on his lips. He & Norma built a home that exuded warmth and love for decades to all the neighbourhood.

As the casket left the church under the salute of a crew of fireman and their trucks, I thought "We should all hope to be as fortunate to leave this life with such a tribute, and to have a church standing-room only full of smiling people sharing stories about our life."

Wally exemplified what good attitude can accomplish, and how that legacy can last for several lifetimes.

Thanks to all the "survivors" of various difficulties that manage to set a good example for the rest of us.

Ryan
 
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"We should all hope to be as fortunate to leave this life with such a tribute, and to have a church standing-room only full of smiling people sharing stories about our life."

That is very insightful for such a young man. :) I don't feel like that would be the case for me, but as we go through life, we never know how we may have impacted many many people in a positive way.

I had just emailed a friend who I had not seen or talked to in about 30 years.
She has been through a lot. I mentioned to her that, the older I get, the more important friends and family become.

I don't hate to go to funerals where the deceased or the family has affected many lives. Went to one Tuesday night. people lined up around the building in the rain to pay their respects.
 
Thanks for these inspiring stories. I also recently attended and spoke at the funeral of a long time employee/friend and her husband. Both the wake and the funeral had to be moved to their church's gymnasiums (they were members of different churches), and both services were SRO. What did these two do to cause such an outpouring of tributes? She was a housekeeper/greenhouse worker. He was a sheetrocker. They were very humble, quiet people. They obviously touched many, many lives. Their attitude? Always friendly, helpful, generous, caring.
 
How we are perceived in life, is how we will be remembered in death... it's that simple and that difficult.

Sometimes it's just so hard to have a kind thought about people. Sometimes it's almost impossible to be up and happy when you are hurting badly. But then, that's the point of it all really... how we handle and accept what life brings. It's the challenge and the joy.

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