Don't be too busy...

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About March of 2006 I was remodeling our new (current) shop location when I noticed an elderly lady was at the paperbox out front. It looked like she was having some difficulty getting the money in the machine. I went outside and offered to help and noticed that she had sheer socks with tennis shoes and a wind breaker jacket. Her nose was runny in the cold temperature. I guessed she was in her 80's and was using a wheeled walker. She was very nice and thanked me for helping her get her newspaper.

The next day she returned in the same fashion. This continued for over a year with all of us at the shop watching for Georgia. When she showed up at the paperbox, someone would go out and greet her and help her get her paper. Many times it was me and my son, Ethan (now 4 1/2). He would yell, "Georgia's here" as he loved to put the money in the machine for her and she would usually give him a quarter or two for himself.

We learned that she was a 96 year old retired school teacher that had no children of her own. Her only surviving relative was a niece in New York in her 50's. She flew out here once and we met her. She called us a few times and asked us to check on Georgia to make sure she was alright. She even sent flowers a few times.

Georgia fell about a year after we met her and had to go into rehab. From there she went into a more permanent facility, but her idea was to get back to her apartment. This was never to be.

My wife, Brenda, kept in touch with Georgia and her niece throughout the summer while I was repairing our home with Ethan. We have been a very busy family for a few years now. I have been telling my wife for months that I want us all to go visit her, but since the end of September we have all been sick with colds on top of being busy.

We are now winding down the busy of Christmas and I told Brenda that we are going to take some flowers to Georgia today and visit with her - no exceptions.

Georgia's niece had said to us earlier this year that she wanted take her back home to New York. We haven't heard from her in a couple of months and we were hoping (selfish) that Georgia was still in town. I called the facility to ask if she was still there and the young lady on the phone repeated her name. I said yes, but I wasn't sure if she was still at that location. She said, "Georgia Mason, the sweet, little old lady in her 90's that was very sharp?" I said yes, that is her. After a few seconds she told me that she knew Georgia personally and that she had passed away about two months ago.

Our friend Georgia Mason died on October 8, 2007 at age 97 - while we were busy.

We all wish for our businesses to be busy, especially now, and sometimes life gets busy. Just make sure that you are not too busy to enjoy life or you will find yourself too busy trying to remember what life was like.

Although I cry, this is not a sad story. Remember, Georgia was a teacher. I learned a lesson and I wanted to pass it on to you.

Here is a little information on Georgia:

http://www.ou.edu/cas/botany-micro/ben/ben384.html#2

Have a Merry Christmas everyone,

Jason
 
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Jason....

A perfect message to start today, Christmas Eve with. We should all remember, that it's not about us, but about what we do for others.

Take comfort in the knowledge, that you and your family made a difference in Georgia's life, and for that you should be proud. You taught Ethan a valuable lesson, that I trust will stay with him all through his walk in life.

Blessings on you and your family, thank you for sharing Georgia with us. It's a reminder to take time for others, especially when we don't have the time.
 
That is quite a story. Thank you for sharing and for reminding us......
 
Jason - I'm sorry for the loss of your friend. Your situation is very familiar to me, and your story really hit home.

This is my nomination for the quote of the day:
Just make sure that you are not too busy to enjoy life or you will find yourself too busy trying to remember what life was like.
I know it's something I've been guilty of too often, and it makes the perfect New Years Resolution.

Thank you for sharing; I know a teacher would be proud of the lesson you are sharing!

tracy
 
The personal connections we make as florists are some of the main reasons I continue to be florist. The families we pray for when someone recieves a serious diagnosis. The older people we adopt as grandparents, aunts or uncles - the families we rejoice with their loved one comes home safe from war - these emotional connections with families or individuals can't be ordered on line, aren't available in a box store and often times can't be found in "the deadline was yesterday" way of life. Your family's life was enriched by the time you got to spend with Georgia and most certainly, her life improved by meeting you all. How lucky we are to have shared a small part in her story by learning about her. Thank you.
 
Jason,

She sounds like she lived quite an accomplished and successful life. How wonderful that she had you and you had her for awhile! Thank you for sharing this.

Beth :~)
 
Jason,

Thank you for the sweet story and the tears. I have been "too busy" lately...you just gave me a well needed reminder.

Thank you, sincerely.
 
Thank you so much for this story. It, indeed, gave me a wake up call.

:)
 
lovely !!!!!

New years eve all the family are popping round,i read this and smiled,if a little sadly,thankyou,warmest wishes to all.x
 
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