So basically, they get money for doing nothing more than helping the schemers scheme.
Well.... not really. Affiliate marketing can be a real positive for any business. Imagine if you had an affiliate marketing set-up and could offer commissions for referrals from your local hospitals, restaurants, funeral homes, country clubs, etc...
When a customer came into your site from one of those websites, and placed an online order, the referring company would earn a commission. It would give cash incentive to companies to link directly to your site - and you could track orders based on the referrals.
The problem with having WSs sell your flowers is
they set the fees, not you. They tell you what to make instead of promoting what you want to sell at prices you determine to be acceptable.
They are the brand, not you.
All the national flower sellers have affiliate marketing relationships but few local florists do. Most performance marketing platforms (like Commission Junction) have monthly sales minimums ( IIRC CJs is $50K in affiliate sales/mo) well above what a typical flower shop would sell.
Affiliate marketing is not a bad thing. It's just that companies like GrowerFlowers, FTD, TF and BloomNet have allowed affiliates to use tricks like geographic misrepresentation, phony markdowns, fake offers of 'free delivery or 'free vase', etc... and then reward those companies with financial incentives to keep doing it.
Many affiliate sites work hard to honestly promote the products and brands of national companies. They do far more than 'nothing' to gain traffic and earn the trust of visitors. Amazon has tens of thousands of affiliates - and they will not put up with the kind of deception currently being 'ignored' by national flower sellers.
Affiliate marketing isn't bad, it's just that
some affiliate marketers in our industry are shady and deceptive.