We don't fill for FTD.com. Yes, you can belong and not fill for them. Maybe because there are other florists in our city willing to drink the kool aid.
I have a long list by my printer of florists we don't fill for. Plus, we won't fill for any whose FTD number ends in ZA, which indicates a sending only florist. If you won't fill for me, why should I fill for you???
I credit Bloomz years ago with leading us on the right track. Back then in FTD we were able to opt to not pay the service fee for incoming orders, thus having the sending florist pay it. We nervously tried it. Our incoming dropped off immediately, and our cash flow increased immediately, and we were on our way to actual profits at the end of the year!