Joe Mioux said it....

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He said in a post several weeks back that anniversaries are the only 'holidays' that we earn (Or something to that effect)

Joe's post got me thinking....

I have 'earned' 18 years today and blogged about it here:

http://jodiduncan.blogspot.com/

And please refrain from making fun of my hair, the colonial nosegays, and any other icons of the early 90's/or rural americana...:bangles:
Thought you all might enjoy.
 
Even though the dress was wrong, wrong wrong, at least I got the groom right!

perfect - it was all just perfect.
thanks for sharing!
 
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I kind of giggled the whole time I read it... tis so typical of "us" to be so critical of what we thought was "cool" at that special time!!
 
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Thanks for sharing Jodi......and meeting you at symposium was so much fun and a true pleasure. Hope to see you again at another symposium.
 
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Thanks for the memories. Our 35th will be in March, no photo's tho...I even baked my own heart shaped wedding cake.Had to wait till my 25th to get a real wedding cake...teehee. That's alright as long as I got the right guy.
In 75 I didn't care for what money could buy.... that was good cause we didn't have any!
The Beatles said it bet "Can't buy me love"lol
Wishing you a life of sweet memories and togetherness,
elmo
 
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Thanks for sharing that Jodi! I love your writing style. I need to start blogging...someday.

About the flowers.....well all I will mention about mine was: blue carnations. can you imagine?&%#@!!
 
Happy Anniversary! thanks for sharing. When we all look back at the wedding it pales in comparison to life. (there are times when you are doing a wedding consult and the bride is agonizing over some minute detail - you'd love to say honey this is so inconsequential ie: don't sweat the little things.)

I hear you about the dress. I couldn't afford the dress I wanted. The cost was $1500 and that was in 1982 - just about the whole amount of $ my parents would contribute for the whole wedding LOL>
 
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When I married Buddy 11 years ago, had a nice small wedding.

Something interesting was: I ordered in flowers in colors we liked....then each designer was allowed to design a centerpiece that they wanted to create. There were no guidelines.

The result was a lot of beautiful arrangements all in the same color scheme, but, all so totally different that guests just kept going from table to table raving about the flowers.

It turned out to be very subtle contest among the designers which makes for an "over the top" look.

A couple of designers were so inspired by what they created that they eventually joined AIFD.


Carol Bice
 
If Joe said it, I believe it...........

Love the pics and your words!
 
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Glad you all are enjoying it.

Thanks for your kind words

Apparently, SAF likes it, too.

I am going to be featured in Floral Management for a feature about florists blogs.

I am so embarrassed; my blog is not very sophisticated and it does not have the look that I want, especially if SAF is going to put the spotlight on it. I feel like I am having company and my house is a mess...LOL!

I have tried to edit the HTML to get a template and I cannot get here from there. If anyone wants to have mercy on me, I would humbly accept your assistance.

I like to write, and I have a fair amount of confidence in writing, but the rest of it could use improvement!

I also don't understand enough about SEO/Spiders, and how a blog helps your website ranking. I am trying to learn but now I feel like it is sink or swim!

Anyhow, glad you enjoy-thanks for sharing the love.

Warmest Regards,
Jodi Duncan, AIFD
 
Jodi, I love your blog (yours and Sprout's are in my favorites). You write very naturally and I like the "look" on your template.
 
"I feel like I am having company and my house is a mess...LOL!"

It's so funny you should say that! A couple of Saturdays ago, a friend of mine wanted to stop by after work. She was spending the afternoon "in town". Well, she finished shopping earlier than she thought and called me to see if it was to early to stop by. Wanted to know if I needed some time home before she came over. You see, she is kind of a perfectionist must have everything in her house just right and perfect. She can't relax unless everything is in order. She would be mortified if anything was out of place.

I told her the house is in the state it is and what it is...it is. I work 6-7 days a week and I'm not going to worry if there are dishes in the sink or if the floor needs mopped. Just stop by and we are as we are.

Had a great visit! Cleaned the next day. Now that I am over 40, I don't care much what people think of my house.

I just had to smile when I read your post!! We women always worry about how something looks.
 
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Great thread. Thanks.
It has brought back so many great memories...
Andy and I were married in '76, only had my 4 brothers and 3 sisters and parents and grandparents. Total guests, 35.
In mom and dad's backyard, put a sheet of plywood over the BBQ to act as an altar. The dog had a bow around her neck...she was our best man/best lady.
My dad, being the ultimate dutchman, made all the flowers except for the bridal bouquet...my oldest brother's girlfriend always wanted to be a florist, so I said what the heck. So she made me a bouquet of red roses and babies breath! Oh my God, it was so terrible!!!
But the wedding was great, we did the vow thing, then changed, and went swimming, played football, ate a meal, and left by 3 in the afternoon. Andy's dad filled the blower motor in the car with confetti, and I swear it blew out confetti for years.
We headed East, and by 11 PM we were out of options for a hotel, and finally stopped at a roadside inn, in the middle of no-where. When we pulled into the parking lot, a lady came out from the office, like she was expecting us, came to the drivers side of the car, and asked Andy how many hours we wanted the room for, one or two?
I didn't know whether to laugh or cry!!!
Thirty some years later, our taste in hotels, and flowers, has developed somewhat. In fact I guess I've become both a hotel and a flower snob.
But I still remember my dad making those beautiful arrangements for our wedding, and it makes me all warm and fuzzy inside.
Thanks Jodi.
Thanks Dad.
 
Jodi -

Your story is a BLAST! Left a comment over on your blog (and would encourage others to do so, too.) Great writing and those bridesmaid dress styles sure bring back memories.

Did you ever ask your family member exactly what she had to do to get the firemen to come over? lol

Joanne -

Your wedding story is a hoot! You need a blog, too. :) Love it!
 
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Jodi and Joanne... both really great stories!!

Jodi, this Nov will be our 17th and I think I have you beat on the hair!! You DEFINITELY have me beat on the BM's dresses. OMG - those were AWFUL - Lol. I actually still love my dress, my BM's dresses and my flowers. My bouquet was my first bridal ever - I was 20, only one month after my 20th b-day. It was a HUGE cascade- I mean HUGE... looked more like a standing spray - but I still loved it. Big was in - just like my aqua net permed hair!

I'll try to scan in a pic or two tomorrow night.

Great thread.
 
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Did you ever ask your family member exactly what she had to do to get the firemen to come over?

In rural, small farming communities, its easy...

You own the Ford dealership! Uncle Lawrence and Aunt Norma owned Rich Motors. It was a thriving 2nd generation car dealership. And they were well respected and kind, well loved people. That never hurts.

You have to understand: This was in a town of well under 1,000 people. No stoplights. 2 greasy spoon restaurants. 1 gas station. The Shawnee Chief Motel. You get the picture.

Big fish, small pond- that explains it best.

She called, asked, and they just came. I don't remember anyone telling Aunt Norma "NO", come to think of it....
 
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