Hi Marsha,
This forum takes a bit of time to understand how it works. To read the most up to date threads, click on the link right below log out way on top on the right side. It says you have "x" number of unread posts. Every time you log out, all threads will be marked as read, but should still appear in your list. There is a lot of material to wade through.
The thing that you will find is that we will joke around, especially if things are slow. But the minute somebody posts a serious question or issue, there will be help from every corner of the globe.
I too thought I wasn't learning much when I first joined. I knew it all but I was willing to help the others out there who wanted help. It really didn't take me long to find out that I had a lot to learn. It isn't just design, everything under the sun gets discussed here.
I hope you find more value as you get used to finding your way around.
Welcome!
Linda