Murder Suicide in Havertown ( My Customer too)

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This is really sad, this woman was just in my store on Sat. to give me her Phillies calandar with her Century 21 magnet on it....she was a sweet lady & a longtime customer of ours.

I cannot begin to fathom how someone can take another persons life and then themselves over financial debt :(

By STEPHANIE FARR
Philadelphia Daily News
[email protected] 215-854-4225
HAVERTOWN, Pa. - A DISTURBING letter was waiting in the printer of the Herr Drive Line auto-parts store in Havertown when an employee opened the doors yesterday morning.
The computer-generated letter was printed in the apartment above the store, where the owner, Derrick Maylock, 66, and his wife, Suzy, 63, lived.
Derrick Maylock tried to explain in his note, police said, why he had shot his wife and then himself to death in the building on Edgewood Road near Brookline Boulevard where small, plastic crucifixes hung over every doorway.
The letter said that the business had fallen on hard times and that the couple had fallen into bad health, according to Haverford Township police, who have jurisdiction over Havertown.
"He didn't want them to be a burden on their family," Haverford Township Deputy Police Chief John F. Viola said of the note's contents.
Last night, police were still attempting to contact the couple's next of kin, who are believed to be siblings living out of state. The couple had no children and no pets, authorities said.
Police were called to the scene about 9:25 a.m. yesterday by the employee who discovered the letter, Viola said.
Responding officers found the Maylocks dead in their bed.
Police said that Suzy Maylock had been shot once and that Derrick Maylock had a single, self-inflicted gunshot wound.
Investigators found a handgun at the scene and said they believed it had been a murder-suicide.
Herr Drive Line, which according to a small placard in the front window has been open since 1985, is next to the Pig and Whistle Deli on a residential street.
Yesterday, the blinds at the business were closed, but by the thick layers of dust upon them, they appeared to have been pulled down for some time.
"It's one of those places that's always been there but you've never really noticed," Viola said.
Through an open door, a mish-mash of car parts could be seen strewn on ragged shelves in unkempt rooms.
Employees at the business declined to comment, but neighbor Anne Clemens said that Herr Drive Line was an auto-parts and -repair shop for front-wheel drive cars.
Derrick Maylock rented the building where he lived with his wife and where he had his business for what neighbors and police said was about 20 years.
A statue of the Virgin Mary sat in the windowsill of the home, and Suzy Maylock had affixed a crucifix to the vent of her Dodge Intrepid, which, along with a Chrysler CTS, was parked behind the building yesterday.
The couple's neighbors said the Maylocks tended to stay to themselves.
"They were the very reclusive type," said Clemens, who has lived next door with her husband for more than 50 years.
But according to Suzy Maylock's co-workers at Century 21 in Folsom, where the Realtor had worked for about two years, she was far from reclusive at her job.
"She had an awesome personality," said one colleague, who asked that her name not be printed. "There's not one person that you could find that would say anything negative about her."
The co-worker said she was unaware of any financial hardships that the Maylocks may have been experiencing. She said Suzy Maylock's husband was listed as her next of kin.
"It was a total surprise," she said of the apparent murder-suicide. *
Staff writer William Bender contributed to this report.
 
that is so sad....he obviously didn't see there were other options...he felt closed in....so sad.
 
what a shame .... you never know what people are at home, when you meet them out.

Interesting how some describe them as reclusive at home, and co-workers describe her as having great personality.

You just never know.
 
Permanent solution to a temporary problem.
 
It's a lousy solution... and leaves never ending scars for those left behind... believe me.

V
 
I'm sorry, V. Sounds like have been there, or know someone who has.
 
My Dad lost his way and took the worst way out.

V
 
It happened just before Alana's first birthday (I named her after my Dad). No answers, just unending questions. He was the best person in my life (after Alana).

V
 
You are in my prayers, Victoria. God bless you and give you more peace each day.

We had a suicide in our family last week. The 17 year-old was actually the nephew of my stepson's first wife. He took his life after having a party while his parents were out of town, and which included drugs. The party attendees wrecked his parents' house, even using hammers on the walls. Completely sad on so many levels.
 
Despair comes in many guises Connie and there are no real answers. I learned very quickly that I can't change what happened (would that I could). I'll never understand completely his choice.

I am so saddened by what has happened to your family. And if nothing else, perhaps his final actions will make a change in others... that's the best one can hope for somtimes, just to get through.

V
 
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I do think it's very important to talk about these kinds of events. It's difficult yes, but necessary to understand mental illness and depression and the very real affects it has on everyone.

If you think someone is suffering, don't ignore them, don't tell them to "buck up", don't belittle their very real pain. If you suspect someone is contemplating suicide, ask them and if they say yes, ask them if they have a plan... and then listen and call for help.

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