My mom is very sick

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Luc

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Started on Wed last week. My mom was sent to the hospital because of low blood pressure. 80 over 40. Also she was found to be delirious and was not able to answer day to day questions.

Tests showed low magnesium and pottasium. Also found she had a fever.
Admitted to hospital regular room.

By Thursday, was sent to ICU. Infection has set in her. Doctors not sure what type, mother is too weak to undergo any major test, she could died.
THey wanted to do a colonoscopy. Cat scan says infection around her operation. At this time they think that maybe they have a leak in her bowel.
Kidneys shuts down during night. THey get them restarted.

By Friday she is moved to Special Care Unit. Blood count low. Have a problem to control blood pressure. Has not been eating properly for about one month.
Infections is getting worse. very week. I make a decision to go up on Sat.

See her Sat. morning. Has multiple lines into her, 2 different types of anti biotics is given to her, Blood count is 77. I am asking her general questions and answers are not normal. SHe is happy to see me and rubs my belly.

By Sat. afternoon . she has fluids on her lungs. THey need to give her more med to fight that or they will have to incubate her. Medication is working, but they gave her a sedetive to calm her down.

Sunday very week, tired, was given blood , blood count higher. My sister who dis-own my mom for the last 2 years goes to see her un-annouced. Creates turmoil.

Monday, still week. but anti-biotics are working.
Today Doctors visits hers. One for her heart. Not working right. One looking at doing the colonscopy tomorrow. to see if the bowels are leaking. Specialist come in from bacterial infectious dept. Think it may be c-dificile she is fighting also. Results are to be confirmed tomorrow. If she has c-dificile she has to go into quarantine for 1 month.

Prayers are needed. Not only for my mom but for my sister who is going to the hospital daily to be with her and talk to doctor.
I am 2 hours away and not in a position to be there for long periods of time.
this weekend 4 people dies in Elliot Lake. 1 Funeral a day till friday. Plus 2 weddiing this weekend, and 1 wedding consultation on sat.
Staff are on stanby in case in need them to step up to the plate.
Luc


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Luc,

You have our prayers.

Ryan, Janis, Wes & 2.0
 
Thoughts, well wishes for strength to your family and you. God bless,
tracy
 
And mine too Luc... always.

V
 
My dear friend Luc,
So much has been placed on your plate this year.You are really being tested aren't you? Our prayers are with you and our hearts are filled with hope that things will improve for your Mom and your sister. You know we are here for you, do not hesitate to call us if you need anything at all,
Sher and the family
 
Hang in there buddy...know you are in our thoughts and prayers....

Mark and crew
 
Luc I am terribly sorry for what has been happening to you. I realize I have never met you but I so enjoy reading your posts it's like I know you. You and your family will be in my prayers.
 
Luc, please know that I pray for you and your mom daily. Her name is on my list posted at the shop. My heart goes out to you because you are so dear to all of us, and my own parents have been in and out of the hospital all year. It is so hard to see them declining.
 
Luc ....

my heart goes out to you. There's no one like your Mom. Our mother's day gift was to find out my mom has terminal brain cancer. Talk about something to take the wind out of your sails. I will send prayers your way .... positive thoughts will make a difference.
 
Pam, please know you and your family are in my thoughts. Such awful news to cope with.

V
 
My thoughts are with you

Pam said:
my heart goes out to you. There's no one like your Mom. Our mother's day gift was to find out my mom has terminal brain cancer. Talk about something to take the wind out of your sails. I will send prayers your way .... positive thoughts will make a difference.

I guess for you know Pam, is to enjoy the little time you have left with your mom.
Not a pleasant one, I am sure. My thoughts are with you and your family.
May the strenght and loving arms of God be with you and your family.

For being in a small Flower chat community, it still amaze me at time how open with are with strangers. I say strangers, not because we don't know some people, but strangers because we do not actually know people visually, but our hearts are their for everyone.

Love and support to all
Luc
 
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Pam said:
my heart goes out to you. There's no one like your Mom. Our mother's day gift was to find out my mom has terminal brain cancer. Talk about something to take the wind out of your sails. I will send prayers your way .... positive thoughts will make a difference.

Pam, may you find the inner strength to deal with this news and the enjoy the the time you have with her. What a gift to be told you have that time and not have her taken from you so quickly that you miss out on sharing these times together. ...we will all pray for you.
Luc, I hope your Mom is making some postive progress..please let us know.
Sher
 
Luc said:
... our hearts are their for everyone.


Luc

Well spoken, Luc. And true.
 
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