I hesitate to tell you all about an experience I had in Palmer, Alaska, lest you think me really unAmerican, but I will tell you anyway.
I have a good woman friend from Calgary. We visit each other most summers, but last year we decided to meet in Alaska and tour around. One of our stops was Palmer, for the state fair.. which was awesome. We checked into our hotel and then decided to pop down to the bar for some nachos and a beer. Now, mind you, I never go to bars, but I guess in Calgary she does.. they're called pubs and may be more civilized, but I'm not sure. So she wanted to, so we did.
We walked into a rowdy scene. Lots of people already half drunk, and a live performer named Hobo Jim. He was onstage and in a pro-Bush and pro-War frenzy. God bless America, and kill the Iraqis!! It turned me right off, and frankly scared me a little. We had just barely ordered our beers and nachos and Hobo Jim started singing his version of God Bless America. Well, we were in the front of the room, sat there listening, and didn't realized EVERYONE else in the room had stood up and had their hands over their hearts. By the time I realized, the song was 3/4 over, and I decided to stay sitting. And Cyndi is Canadian, so WHY would she stand up? She wouldn't.
Anyway, H.J., being the kind soul that he is, added a new line to the end of this song, "God bless America, even those who don't stand up", which lead to much boooing. Yikes. I guess we screwed up. We felt VERY intimidated, especially my friend. She was actually afraid to leave, thought we might be attacked (that's how gung ho this group was), and/or H.J. would point out our leaving to the crowd, or maybe even APPLAUD it! I said heck no, we have food coming, let's leave when the band takes a break.
So we listended to several more songs, realized even H.J. was drunk, and slid out when the band took a break. No one attacked us, or even seemed to notice. Thank goodness. Altho I WAS looking to make sure no one followed us, or saw which hotel room we went into, and I WAS happy to check out the next day.
I felt the way we were treated was WRONG. In hindsight, I wish I had stood up, but I felt like I was expected to, and I didn't like that. And what was my friend to think? I don't think it elevated her impression of Americans.
The other thing I thought weird... Alaska hosts travellers from all over the world. How did they even know we spoke English? How did they know we weren't from Lapland or B.F. Egypt? Why expect us to stand up?
Anyway, maybe I was wrong, but I thought I had freedoms, and it left a really bad taste in my mouth.