We had to let go of more furry friends tonight...

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As pet owners know, it is very hard to say goodbye to their beloved, furry family members. Tonight, my wife, son, and I said goodbye to our dog Jasper (Red Heeler 13 years), our cat Megan (Calico 20 years), and our cat Elizabeth (Manx 13 years).

Jasper was my wife's baby and has "worked" in our flower shop for the last three years. We have been keeping an eye on her closely since December when she began to have some difficulty getting in and out of the van and up on our bed. She had a mass growing on her rear leg for more than two years. It started out slow and finally began to take over last summer. It was inoperable because of its' location. She became uncomfortable over the last couple of weeks and her legs began to slip out from under her this week.

Megan was old and began howling in pain a couple of nights ago while bathing herself. Her body, inside and out, was finally beginning to shut down.

Elizabeth developed a skin cancer on her nose last summer and her nose fell off in the fall. It was unsightly, but she has been fine otherwise. We had her put to sleep as a preventative measure (for lack of a better term) because the weather has turned and the sun has been shining. We didn't want her to lay in the sun and burn the underlying tissue or have problems with yellow-jackets and flies. (Sorry to be gross)

We have now lost twenty pets in the last fourteen years - six dogs, eight cats, and four pygmy goats. We have taken them into the vets office for a pre-scheduled appointment. We have met the vet on the side of the road on Sunday. I have driven twice the speed limit to the vets office for an emergency. Worst of all, I have received the, "I'm sorry, she just slipped away" phone call from the emergency vet at 1am. This time was different, though, in that we had a veterinarian specializing in "end-of-life care" come to our house. The overall process was longer, but it was more peaceful. She was very caring and considerate. It was not any easier as it never gets easier, but it was a more comfortable experience for all concerned.

We are all very familiar with the quality of service and the "service experience" that can be provided both in life and death in our business. This is one that pet owners can look for when the time comes. I would highly recommend it.

We now have only one dog, three cats, and one pygmy goat. We are awaiting the new arrivals. We have "the sign" on our door that only stray animals can read. All but one of our pets was a stray. Well, OK, the goats weren't really stray.

Jason
 
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Pets for some are just as important as family members and the grieving process much the same. Your family is like an angel for these animals left to fend for themselves in the wild. They were lucky to have found a home with you and had a quality of life that some animals are not lucky enough to get. You should find comfort in the care and love you provided for your pets as I am sure they found comfort in your home as opposed to the wild.
 
Jason, I'm very sorry for your loss, it is not easy when you lose a pet. I have many pets as well.

May you and your wife find comfort in this poem entitled "Rainbow Bridge".


Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.

There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.

There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.

The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

Author unknown...
 
I had to say goodbye to my 16 year old collie cross Hannahdog last year. I'd had her longer than my children and husband so she really was my first born. It may sound gross but I still keep her ashes with a picture of her as it reminds me of all the good times. It's horrid to lose pets and so I send you hugs and kisses from over the pond.
 
Jason, how wonderful these great creatures shared their world with you. You will miss Jasper, Megan and Elizabeth but will conjur them up in the memories made.

The at home Vet service is second to none and is far less traumatic for family.

V
 
I'm sorry for your losses - our pets are family also.
I'm glad that you found someone to help you in the way you need. That is a gift.

tracy
 
How incredibly sad for you and your family, Jason!
 
As someone who just recently lost his little chihuahua of 19 years.......I can fully sympathize with how you are feeling. I cannot think of a single time on my life when I was not surrounded by pets and animals.....from dogs and cats to horses, pigs, goats, ducks, chickens, etc. They do and will hold a special place in your heart and the new ones that come to your home will find their own place in your heart. The one's we lose are never gone from our hearts.
 
Jason, So sorry to hear of your loss. Those furry ones really can get into your heart. I love the idea of the Rainbow Bridge and hope to see many of my babies when it's my time
Hugs,
Lorrie
 
I am so sorry for you loss. I had to put my cat to sleep the week before valentines and my mother died the week before that. The death of my cat was worse, my mother had a long and good life but my cat Shilough was only 10yrs old and I brought him to work evey day. When my shop burned 3 yrs ago everyone would come up to me and ask if the big cat was at my shop when it burned no he would go home eveynight with me he also like riding around wtih me when I delivered. My vet which has been very good to me let me sit with him for 4 hrs before we finnaly had to let him go. He had renual failure and she was able to keep him going for a year, now she wants me to go with her this weekend she is going to get another cat scottishfold and says they have a mane coon I have told her it is like losing a spouse I need to respect him for awhile before I find a new one. When I lost my first cat I waited over 2yrs before I got Shilough Again I feel for you Teresa
 
They were lucky to have owned you. The Rainbow Bridge poem is embossed on the urn of my beloved Hershey. In a way, although it makes me cry, it comforts me.
God Bless
 
Jason,

My love and sympathies to you and your family. I take my little poodle with me everywhere. I know the love that we share with our pets-it's a bond that only another pet owner/lover can understand. They always love and are want to be with us. I know that you will miss your "little ones". It's always a difficult decision to make to let them go, but when that time comes, we know that it was made with love. You will always have your wonderful memories.

God Bless

T
 
Just like loosing a FAMILY MEMBER!

Our sympathies to your family on the loss of your beloved pets.

Here's a link which I think you will find some comfort in.

http://www.marklevinshow.com/sprite/

The author of this book, a radio talk show host, was so depressed over the loss of his dog Sprite, that he was about to give up his radio career.

Instead, he turned to writing down his entire experience and that helped him get through the pain.

We too are reaching the point where, we will have to say goodbye to our dear little Preston, an American Eskimo Spitz.

He's 16 now (112 in human years), lost most of his hearing and sight, is on salt free diet dog food, and takes meds each day for his heart problem as well as a diuretic.

On a good day, he can still go into his puppy mode and prance around like a young deer. On a bad day, his legs slide out from under him, and we have to prop him back up while he's trying to eat his dog food.

Saying goodbye will be very very hard for this family.
 
Thank you all for your kind words of support. We have had family and friends and many customers come and spend a little time with Jasper in the shop this year. We began telling them after the new year that it was kind of a day to day evaluation. On Thursday we told our contact at the home-health/hospice center (an account of ours) around the corner that it was the day and several of the nurses and volunteers came by to say farewell to Jasper. There was a lot of tears.

I was on the phone with a customer that day and was talking to her about our situation and she told me that she was looking for a home for her dog. She said she was not willing to give up her pet unless it was to a safe home and if we are interested to let her know. Now, here is the ironic part - her dog is an American Eskimo just like the one we lost last year. Its' name...Jasper. If anyone is ready for a pet, you can borrow our "sign" because it is guaranteed to give results. We are not sure if we are ready yet, but we are considering her offer.

My wife and I both cried while reading the Rainbow Bridge. Thank you, Erlene. My only hope is that we survive that stampede that awaits us.
 
My only hope is that we survive that stampede that awaits us.


You will not only survive but you will revel in the wags, purrs and licks that greet you.

Someone told me once that animals don't go to heaven... I don't want to be there in that case.

V
 
I was on the phone with a customer that day and was talking to her about our situation and she told me that she was looking for a home for her dog. She said she was not willing to give up her pet unless it was to a safe home and if we are interested to let her know. Now, here is the ironic part - her dog is an American Eskimo just like the one we lost last year. Its' name...Jasper. If anyone is ready for a pet, you can borrow our "sign" because it is guaranteed to give results. We are not sure if we are ready yet, but we are considering her offer.

Jason,

Wow! I would have to say that this pup is calling out to you...loud and clear! My heart goes out to you and yours for the loss of your beloved pets. Perhaps the "new Jasper" would bring you a measure of comfort and peace. Consider the customer's offer seriously...and let the healing begin.
 
I have to agree....this is way too much of a co-incidence. This dog is meant for you.
 
Boomer, too

We just lost our Boomer, over the rainbow bridge he did go. He was my grandfather's dog, then my dad inherited him. Boomer used to come to work with my mother here in the shop and he outlived her. He hasn't been here to greet the customers for a while, but we still have people ask about him. My heart must not be ready for the next one because after losing my Sierra last year there have been no "founds" so I know the time is not right.

Love the ones you have, wait to cross the bridge to see the ones we have let go.

Donna
 
I started not to read this thread when I just saw it because I was so sure that whatever you were writing was going to break my heart. But here I am (big old sucker for people who love and know the bond of a life partner with 4 paws). I am so sad for all of us who go thru this over and over again, but we all also know that we were so blessed by each and every minute they were with us.
 
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