Allie, you answered your own question... for me, it IS about ethics and morals. That said, I do not think that people who continue to wire out orders are unethical for the most part, there are some bad apples in the barrel and those are the ones I am trying to do something about. My customers understand my reasoning very well, I began educating them a full year before I quit. And trust me, the trend is consumer to florist direct, consumers get smarter every day, and with each passing month, more and more will go direct and eventually in 10-20 years there will be no wire business.
Likewise, I have said before, the wire side of my business accounted for less than 7% of my total sales, and 90% of my headaches... I don;t like headaches.
Also, my NET is improved with the removal of the wire side. I just finished my fiscal year, with a NET profit of 9.8% after my salary, best I've done in more than a decade even in this economy, and my first year of no wires (10 months of it)...yes, I have made other changes too.