I think the key here is a horse is unncessarily being beaten and flogged. Poor horse
We all have different ways of thinking, some think like a designer, some like a business person and some have a mix of both.
If someone doesnt agree with you it doesnt mean they dont understand you, it just means they dont hold the same opinion. That does not make their opinion or yours wrong, just different. There is a difference in having an opinion and being opinionated.
If I could dot you again I most certainly would!
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