Can't change it if you never try. Give up and they win.
I honestly truly gave it my best try, for quite a number of years. I have a folder on my desk right now labeled "Crusade" I dug out of my file cabinet and can't bring myself to throw away, that is at least 4" thick of stuff I tried, including making (and curculating) THE first OG list and at the top it says "Lets all refuse their orders".
I finally surrendered.
and a definition of Surrender I often use in recovery programs is:
"To join the winning side."
So, why not try to beat them at their own game. I am in the process of giving it a try.
Yes yes yes and a thousand times yes.
That's been my mission for quite a few years now, and it is way more productive in my world than fighting a losing battle.
Chezdoodle you nailed it honey. Thank you.