We, iI guess, are the exception to all your rules.
We do do weddings on Mother's Day weekend, as well as Valentines' Day weekend.
Look at your calendar, folks....If Valentines day is on Sat/sunday, your Buyers will be sending most orders to the OFFICE/WORKplace on Friday! You can do a wedding on Val Day (Saturday).
Mother's Day - yes, we have done as many as 5 on this weekend, as well as our regular MD orders, and 2 proms. We buy smart, and work smart!! for example -- designs for bouquets are kept simple (handtieds, all 1 kind of flower, etc; bows are made way ahead, bouquet holders are prepped ahead, etc.) We get done everything we can ahead, just like we prep for holidays! The challenge is always in labeling & making sure that flowers for a wedding/prom/etc don't mistakenly get used or sold for a regular order.
Think out of the box. You cannot control when your customer decides to plan a certain specla event. YOu can only react to it, and make it profitable for your shop!
Queen, I am so sorry that you had difficulty finding someone to help you. Hopefully, it will work out.
Regards,
Cheryl