...Do you think I am ready for a site map? I tried using a free site map generator and the code looks like it lists my pages and the frequency they are updated (monthly), is that all there is to a site map, and where does the code go?
Well, I can't see what you generatored...but yes, if you generatored a xml file, that's all there is to it.
Example file:
<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?>
<urlset xmlns="http://www.google.com/schemas/sitemap/0.84">
<url><loc>http://www.sendbloomingflowers.com/index.htm</loc>
<lastmod>2006-11-25T12:33:32-04:00</lastmod>
</url>
<url>
<loc>http://www.sendbloomingflowers.com/Celebrations.htm</loc>
<lastmod>2006-11-24T09:28:27-04:00</lastmod>
</url>
</urlset>
and so on to include each page of your website...
you save it as
http://www.sendbloomingflowers.com/sitemap.xml
and upload it to your server...
(Some webmasters create the sitemap page in html so that consumers can use it as well as the spiders.)
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