I had a brides mom say they didn't need centerpieces but in the next breath ask, "well how much are cut hydrangeas each, we might just put them in our own vases". I'm meeting with her tomorrow and am bracing myself for her to ask, "ok, can we buy those hydrangeas but bring in our vases for you to put them in?" I am sure the concept of labor and and delivery charges will not compute. But that's ok she can do it herself then.