Ok, just got off the phone with Barbera who is very smart, charming, savvy and a good person.
We talked for an hour, about a lot of things, but I brought up my questions about the new florists coming in and that she sells to the public on her site, which competes against her members.
Herb, she said great things about your shop and used you as the example. I didn't even bring up any specific florists, but she talked about you... I think. It was some TF florist from Philly, so I assume you.
Tim Huckabee gave Barbera the idea to expand in an economy that was less that great. She had hired Tim to help her. He came up with the idea of BBtoo, a new name brand for TF florists who could join under the bbrooks family. (that is why you see the BBtoo next to some florist's names in the bbrooks backend) She explained that there are good florists who might sell cookie cutter stuff, but, if told, could do awesome stuff too, which I agreed.. since Herb and Dianne are members and are in the top of their league. So bottom line, economy is bad, need to figure out how to make more money, create "new brand" (BBtoo) and let TF florists in if they can do high end work. - And please don't get me wrong, I am not cutting on Herb or one of my bestest buddy here, Dianne.
When I told her about my customer finding out, through my website that we went through bbrooks and went directly to the bbrooks site and placed her order, leaving me with 0% and a lost customer forever (when it comes to wiring out her flowers) she told me she was offended that I was accusing her of stealing a customer and that it wasn't her fault, but my fault for having the bbrooks name on my site. Wow. Yeah my fault that she gathers orders on her site. I asked her to take down her e-commerce on her site or make it so when a customer orders, they can give credit to their local bbrooks member florist OR even add her florist list. She said no, it makes too much money.
I find it fascinating to listen to justifications. You are either for the florists or against, it's black or white. If you say you are for the florists 90% of the time, you are not for the florists. Am I the only sane one in this world? Is there any other industry, other than the mafia, in which we pay an organization and then they take some of that money and compete against us? Am I really awake? I know... I am a naive fool. I want to believe that their are businesses who treat me, like I would treat them.
I wonder if a WS, who paid $1000s to a server host or webmaster found out that they started a WS and were competing against them? Do you think that the WS would still use them? Am I the crazy one here? Is this concept that hard for them to see or is justifying the means that easy? MONEY MONEY MONEY MONEY......MONEY.
And I am not blaming Barbera for my actions. I signed up for bbrooks after being invited, I should of done my do-diligence and saw that bbrooks collected orders from the public. So that is my fault. Barbera is a wonderful lady who I can learn a lot from, I just feel a little empty right now and don't know what to think.
My son is eating a bar of butter, I have to go.