Hum....Iv'e been thinking. I have read every comment, although I have to say, I can't remember each and every word but I've tried to get the general ideas and feelings behind all of this. As I see it, and as many, if not most, will probably disagree with me, the focus has been on how to survive this bad economic downturn and still survive in the end. Alittle back-ground on myself: I never considered myself as a traditional florist. I had never worked in another flower shop and knew nothing about how they were set up or how they operated, I never knew about wire services. (Is that what they really are, a service?) I got into this business, kinda by accident, and in my personal drive to be "someone", ha! ha! lol!!!what a joke that one was! Anyway, long story, I'll skip most of it, my daughter and I opened a small store selling silk and dried flowers, supplies, ribbons, birch, euc, etc that we used in our small craft endeavors. One day someone came in asking for fresh flowers and the rest is history, we are a full service flower shop. I called a local craft person that I knew that bought roses and dried them for potpourri and asked where to buy some roses to sell. I built my business on long stem Vega roses that I sold wrapped for $12.99 a dozen. I absolutely did not know what I was doing. The rest of the flower shops in town, at that time, were selling a dozen roses for $60-$70 a dozen wrapped or arranged and I didn't even know that. I was so naive. I just wanted to give people the nicest product for the least amount of money. I still do. As time went on some of the wire services started contacting me with promises to bring me more business and make more money,ha ha, another joke! Not true. It has taken me along time to figure out they are a money hungry business, using small business to make them a bunch of money. Now I know belonging to the wire services is a voluntary thing to do, but I was deceived, in my opinion and how I see it. So now, fast forward, 20 years, (where has my life gone to
? ) and I find myself trying to get out of the wire services and get my business back to where it was, still trying to give the nicest product for the least amount of money, and yes Rick, still make a profit BECAUSE that is not a dirty word!
So what is the point of all of this? I built my business on a good product, (those Vega roses were huge and lasted 2 weeks for sure) a fair price, and I feel, good customer service. I've got to remember that and get back to the basics. Word of mouth, at that time, was my advertising, and my business grew. Now what? It's like Ricky said, it all starts (and I'll say) and ends with the flower shop itself. I have grown to greatly dislike the wire services, voluntary or not. I do not believe they are playing fair and the og's are ABSOLUTELY the worst. Deceptive advertising and the money that goes along with it makes it nearly impossible for small to medium shops to even try to compete with these blood suckers, again as I see it, for our own local business. That is what is so sad. But, as many of you would say, they are just in business and they are great at marketing etc. I am all about fairness but in this day and age that has gone by the way side. Forget that. That is the way of the world now and it is full of greed. Again I'll say, yes I know they are all just a business trying to survive. But at what expense? Ours. So what do we do? As I see it, the best we can at taking care of our own customers in our home towns. In the end, I hope these deceptive og's don't destroy too many business that have struggeled for so long to try and earn a living. They are everywhere, under every nick and cranny and under every rock! Disgusting. So, as I see it, unless there is some legislation put into place to stop the deception of pretending to be a local flower shop in a town and capturing that local order there is no stopping them. Since I don't have the funds, or the time, to compete against them, I just have to forge ahead trying to promote myself to my local home town customers and try to reach as many as out of town people that are searching for a REAL LOCAL FLORIST that I can. I am not blaming the wire services for where I am right now in my business. My name is Carol, and I am solely responsible for the sucess or failure of my business
But I don't see TF, save the florist=ha!, FTD or 1800 flowers doing much for me. They never really did. I will be free from TF in the fall, I am still with 1800 for numerous reasons, my choice. Eventually I will be done with them all. I do not see how any business, unless you are a big sender, will be saved by filling there orders. I, at one time, thought that as long as I am not losing money, I can still keep going with them, keeping my employees working and moving thru product, but know, with all of the greed that has gone into it the last couple of years with all the extra fees it is making it near to impossible to keep going with them. The stress alone in dealing with them is enought to kill anyone off!!! I hope the meeting in Las Vegas will be of a great help to all of you. I even hope in the end it will help me in my business. I don't think I can go as I already have so many things planned, but I eagerly look forward to any good thoughts and ideas that come out of this meeting. I want us all to succeed. PS It is 3:55 am and I am on pain pills, I had 17 teeth pulled last Tuesday and I am trying to deal with the pain and new dentures, that don't fit well and hurt like heck! So I am taking a chance in posting this